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How are male earrings viewed?

Post by grandedestroyer » Sun Mar 14, 2021 11:54 pm

How are they viewed in the legal profession generally? Would there be instances where it would be ok for me to wear my earrings?

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by cavalier1138 » Mon Mar 15, 2021 5:49 am

I think it depends on the nature of the earring (i.e. big difference between a 3-inch gauge and a barely-noticeable stud) and what kind of legal work you'd be doing. They would be absolutely inappropriate in court, but whether they were appropriate in client-facing settings, etc., would be entirely situation-specific.

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by grandedestroyer » Mon Mar 15, 2021 11:30 am

I'm talking about studs only, I don't plan on getting gauges. Would studs be inappropriate in court as well? Can anyone speak to how large firms or the federal government would view them? I imagine smaller firms and probably judges are going to be a bit more varied.

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by showusyourtorts » Mon Mar 15, 2021 11:52 am

I feel like the answer is definitely going to be that it's practice group specific.

With that said, maybe there's a common enough answer to guess how the wind may blow in your particular office...

FWIW, as a data point, having a male associate wear stud earrings (even if just worn within the office, and not worn when meeting with clients/ going to court) would probably be pretty scandalous within my BL firm. Even if not banned/discouraged in a formal capacity, I could see it informally affecting your reputation within the group, especially with some of the older/more stuffy partners. I'd say my office is relatively informal in terms of centralized leadership, and is certainly not known for being a white shoe firm.

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by cavalier1138 » Mon Mar 15, 2021 1:10 pm

Yeah, biglaw and fedgov are going to be the least likely areas to approve of any kind of earring for men. I was thinking more along the lines of "cool" NGOs and public defender offices with looser rules about what constitutes "professional appearance."

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by showusyourtorts » Mon Mar 15, 2021 1:42 pm

cavalier1138 wrote:
Mon Mar 15, 2021 1:10 pm
Yeah, biglaw and fedgov are going to be the least likely areas to approve of any kind of earring for men. I was thinking more along the lines of "cool" NGOs and public defender offices with looser rules about what constitutes "professional appearance."
Oh! Yes, I totally missed that. I should have started my response with "In biglaw, the answer is going to be practice group specific."

I'm not really sure, but I'd imagine/at least hope that the vast majority of NGO-type jobs have no issue with it.

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by nixy » Mon Mar 15, 2021 2:38 pm

FWIW, I’ve never seen earrings on a male fedgov attorney. (At least, not one who ever has to go to court.)

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Post by FND » Sat Mar 27, 2021 5:21 am

I know a guy who had I'm guessing 0 Gauge earrings. He did mostly criminal defense at a small shop. He also joked about how he'd sometimes be mistaken for his clients.

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by Dmcnabb536 » Thu Apr 01, 2021 12:28 am

I work in FedGov and want to help ease your concern. I wear studs and I’ve seen several other male attorneys wear earrings at work. I could see how it might depend on the office, but probably a non-issue with most agencies. I have never worn earrings in court. I’d second that Big law probably depends on the practice group.

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Re: How are male earrings viewed?

Post by ariannacraig » Mon Apr 04, 2022 8:02 pm

Hello. I am new here. What do you guys think of men with earrings? Like diamond studs?

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